The experience of opposites introduces the child to the experience of God through affective relationships, in the path - unique and solitary - of the individuation process. Early trauma was explored, the importance of affective relationships and, above all, the soul's finalist point of view was recovered. As Jung taught and that allows us to understand the different paths during child development, being symbolic expressions of a purpose of continuous development. Similar to the intention of an archer, who has a bow and arrow in his hands, to reach his target, it is not enough to just make his move, but he also needs to analyze the movement of the medium. Whether it will hit its target or not is not something that can be controlled by will, but by destiny.