Forgiveness: A Jewish-Jungian Perspective

The lecture will be followed by a book signing!

Numerous empirical studies have demonstrated that forgiveness decreases anger, anxiety, and depression and increases self-esteem and hopefulness for the future.  Nevertheless, the capacity of an individual to express forgiveness requires a capacity for empathy for the other, as well as a resilient and flexible ego.  This presentation will focus on forgiveness from religious, philosophical, and psychological perspectives. The ability to differentiate between those we are open to forgiving vs. those we cannot bring ourselves to forgive, including ourselves, depends on a myriad of factors.  From a Jewish perspective, there are specific, well-delineated rituals to be followed for those who seek forgiveness that is not being granted, although some wrongs are considered unforgivable. Alternatively, from a Jungian perspective, granting forgiveness may necessitate an interpersonal process that ultimately does not require the absolution of the offending person or group. Dr. Maidenbaum will address the conflicting tension in the psyche between these two perspectives, including how to support patients in moving towards the ever-challenging task of forgiving.  Synchronistically, this talk will be given during the Ten Days of Repentance and Awe, a holy time of reflection in the Jewish calendar between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur.